Has anyone ever had this happen to them?

Because racism is totally uncool in the mainstream and illegal in some places, whites have learnt to be racist in ways which cannot demonstrate culpability. If you try to call them out, they gaslight you by saying you're being overly sensitive. u are getting one of the life lessons that many of us have experienced - racism from whites and/or blacks nowadays is usually subtle. Against Asians it is especially bad, seeing as anti-asian racism is not accorded the scrutiny it deserves.

It's clear that you can't rely on the police anymore for such minor inconveniences. Hire some security and permanently blacklist those troublemakers. Some asian groceries have an "unwanted dead or alive" section in their store with printed out screencaps of those criminals caught on surveillance footage. FWIW I would try to move out of the "bad" part of town, racism there can fuck up every bit of your lives in more things than just making a living.

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