This is a one off, inscrutable thing personal to her and to try to use this as a "learning opportunity" to apply to others is kind of a disservice to others as they may operate on entirely different wavelengths

Im definitely having trouble not applying this to other dates. I had one the other day and i could not help but think the entire time: i feel like she is having a good time/likes me, but what if she doesnt.

And afterwards: she told me she had a good time but what if she actually didn't? And ends things soon. Better not text her and better not develop any feelings cause you never know how someone else truly feels, regardless of what they tell you to your face..

I guess it all just added to my insecurities, because i really liked her and thought she liked me as well..