Gtfoh. It's obviously not, get over it. Look at the divorce rate and how often women initiate it. Look how COMPLETELY observable women's hypergamy is...with the internet, their isn't any ability to disguise it at all - And this is coming from a guy who's taking a chance on love and is getting married. Even I, a literal romantic, can see that the "blue pill" is mostly made up bull shit that society selfishly pushes onto the kinds of kids for its own benefit.
It's completely brainwashed, delusional dudes like you who stubbornly refuse to see reality for what it is in the face of evidence, evidence modern women willingly provide btw, that is preventing the truth - that most women are simply too status driven to really love a man for who he is, from being acknowledged to even a minimal degree in mainstream culture. Men like you are stagnating necessary cultural progress in favor of virtue signaling and being liked by other just world fallacy prone, raised-on-Disney morons. Fuck you bro.