My sister and I are three years apart. When I was in college, my family was hard on me for having friends who drank frequently, and heavily discouraged me from drinking. In reality, I was rarely ever the only sober person in the room. Now that my sister is early-college age and living at home, where her 3-years-younger boyfriend visits frequently, one of my parents buys my sister and her boyfriend alcohol frequently and helps them clean up if they get sick from it.

Two years ago, my car was totaled due to a flash flood that affected part of a parking lot that I was in. My family did pay for the amount between what insurance gave me for the old car and the price of the new one, and for that I'm very grateful. With my new car, my sister had the oldest car in the family, and she decided that her car had a squeaking noise in it that scared her. Mechanics couldn't hear it. One of my parents traded in her car and bought her a new one, since my sister "isn't the type of person who can drive around in a car that's making noise."

When my sister was in high school and I was away at college, she and one of my parents, on multiple occasions, asked me to get in touch with my high school teachers or employers to make requests for my sister on who she was sitting next to or working with.

Small shit like that, but I could go on for days.