I hate the idea of playing games but I thinking of them as games missing a deeper message. people are naturally interest machines. we seek out novelty and stimulation and things that put us on the edge of longing. most of us would rather have then long than to have all of the time. that is why we need temperance to keep things special. I love lasagna but it wouldn't be special if I had it everyday. I think love and romance is the same way. we need to not eat lasagna everyday to keep it special. I know that can seem strange for many of us to hear when part of what drove us to the affair is not getting what we need with some regularly. it I thi k what we need is neither getting what we want all the time nor being denied. we need variety and intrigue and longing to feel fulfilled. ok, I'll get of my soap box now.