My AM recently became more liberal in her thinking, too (at least if it's not LGBTQ-related, much to my distress, since I'm non-binary), but still goes on about with the stupid Confucian nonsense like filial piety, despite claiming to be a Christian woman, and it definitely doesn't help that she constantly thumps "the Bible" (misquoting it to suit her own personal preferences, if not mixing up Confucian mumbo-jumbo into it altogether, to justify her starting fights with us), all the while being a hypocrite who does not practice what she preaches. She can scream obscenities and curse at me, threaten me (with homelessness, institutionalization, arrest, death, etc.), accuse me of the worst things, call me a bunch of terrible and demeaning names, refuse to let me talk, and blame me for everything that goes wrong in her life, yet I'm somehow the one who "does not know how to communicate" and is "cursed" for "disobeying" the commandment to honor parents (which she mixes up with Confucian filial piety, when I showed her the article), as well as for refusing to be a Christian, comparing me to the adult kids of her pastor and other members of her church, calling me her "punishment" because I didn't turn out "good" like these stupid kids.
After all the abuse she heaps on me day-to-day, she, a few days ago, outright told me (not asked me) that I will take care of her in her old age and get two jobs to pay her bills and give her spending money (and to get a third or even fourth job if I want to pay for my own stuff), as if she automatically assumes that I'll remain single my entire life or will never have better things to do, yet I'm not allowed in "her" house because "all that [she's] for [me]."
Moving away doesn't help, since my sister did that, and she still can't really afford to cut our parents off (so she also has to live with a roomate, who is some guy we don't even know, to help with expenses, and it's also not like our parents can afford to send her money), so she still has to deal with our AM constantly being on her back about how she lives her life, and laments about my sister being almost 32 and still not being able to find a good Christian guy (preferably Asian, even though my sister told me she thinks Asian guys are ugly and likes White guys) to marry, settle down and have kids with, and my sister's sick of hearing the same things from our AM over and over again. My sister broke up with her ex-fiance for many reasons, but since they were together for 7 years and he's the only guy my family actually likes, our AM keeps nagging my sister about why she won't get back together with him.