Nobody is trying to make anyone feel guilty. Nobody is pushing blame over onto anyone else or asking to extend then invitation and RSVP. It’s just the fact of the matter. It is what it is, we can wish it all to fall back on kail but the reality is that it won’t give her the brunt of hurt. It will be the children. So I’m saying, you don’t have to agree with me I’m not saying I’m right (I don’t think I’m right or trying to convince you to think my way- just consider the facts)... anyway, that it’s going to be detrimental to the children. Kail will have to deal with some of the day to day tribulations, but mostly it will be about the kids and their emotional responses to the outcomes of the situations that have played out due to Kail. As a family, when you have children that are being brought up within your family (yours a responsible contender, like a grandmother —- a contributing party to the raising and behalf of Lincoln) would you not all agree that maybe it’s best to put personal feelings aside and forget the resent — not forgive kail and not help kail to help kail- but to be the bigger person /adult /family role model Isaac will respect and love and l learn from ?? Don’t we want him happy and healthy and emotionally acceptive of everything happening?

You can say it’s Kail’s fault and yeah it certainly is. But pointing out blame is so far away from pertinent to the situation at hand. She’s going to be dealing with that for the rest of her life, but when Lincoln desires he thinks his grandmother is a bad person for refusing his baby brother Lux into her house and has some tainted views of her because she can’t let brothers grow up side by side without dividers and “not welcome here” signs— or knowing that Lincoln could really be negatively emotionally impacted because he isn’t on a tier wii his brother and adults are treating children (brothers) as unequals?

Kail isn’t treating her sons like that, she’s not forcing Lux other family members , maybe it was a one time thing and was desperate— but for Javi to mock it, for him to basically imply she would never he is way beneath me watching him — there’s no way I would agree— also funny and ironic bc Javi was going I take Lux in and raise him as his own— so change of pace...

But this is all while Isaac has no understanding of why the people he looks up to are talking down/refusing his brother.