Yes I agree! But everyone says it is so hard for him too and he has a lot of pain too. And that is not fair because he made the decision but he appearently he did not realized the consequences were so painful for me (and thus he was shocked that it caused me so much pain, like what did you expect?)

Urgh I wish I could think like that too. Like just forget and shake it off, but we do the same study and have the same circle of friends :/

I totally agree you but I really still want him in my life but that will probably hurt me a lot too, but not having him in my life hurts me too...

The problem with me I know that it was partly my fault too... so I feel bad about causing this break-up too. On the other hand he wants some distance because he cant handle the consequences of his decision, like he has been egoistic so many times and now again.

The only thing I want is to go back to normal right now, I dont want this distance but I know I need to think like you! So I will just read your tips from time to time!