Why are all the hottest men so dull?

but men who work at becoming hot also run the risk of losing their personalities in their quest for hotness.

Can confirm.
Not calling myself hot, but definitely in my prime. Still remember how charming I used to be back when I was overweight, shy, insecure, and a mediocre dresser.

Feel like part of it has to do with just not giving a fuck anymore. Sure, I care about how I present myself and everything, but as I gained confidence I plain decided to stop trying to bend over backwards to try to make myself appealing to others. I'm still friendly and a pleasant conversationalist, but that's about as far as I'll go. Currently trying to figure out how to be the best version of myself and I don't believe it involves what anybody else thinks of me.

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