As a fellow DD, I agree with thus guy. They are brutal. I've been in the community for only three years, had two littles. And after my second little, well. I've pretty much lost all my confidence as a daddy. Both of my break ups were quite bad. But I'm slowly recovering. Scars will heal. The pain will rear it's ugly head occasionally when you are alone. But it lessens. If you find yourself some good little friends, and once you heal enough, a good daddy, they will help make it easier. And who knows. One day, you may find yourself forgetting about the loss. Sorry if what I said is a bit much. But it's just from someone on the bad end of relationships. Hope things work out or at least, that it's a clean break that doesn't hurt as much.