We do always check the condom. Or rather I say "give it here let me have a look!" Im really on it with monitoring my periods and ovulation since coming off the pill a year ago.

Thankfully abortions not an issue here, I belive I could get the pills mail order thanks to the pandemic, He wouldnt even have to know I had had one unless I told him I guess? A surgical abortions easy to get through a charity/dr too as friends of mine have had them one quite late on, which is unfortunate as it's traumatic but I've investigated it as a "just incase".

He's in his mid 40's and I'm 38 so if he does change his mind about kids at least I can chalk it down to a mid life crisis haha!