Grindr has more then just gay guys on there. I had a realization, as stupid/ obvious as it sounds, that there are maybe lots of guys looking for a hookup because they really want to fuck another guy but they may not be gay themselves. It's a sexual fantasy or maybe a kink to them. They seem to only want to top, won't try bottoming and they are often overly specific about the body type they are looking for. Top only. Like I remember one guy with a 10" cock wanted to top me in exchange for enough gas money to get to southern California. He said he was straight but needed the money. I lol'd and blocked him. There are all kinds of guys on Grindr with different wants. I wish I could simply meet another gay guy, have sex, maybe be friends or something more and not have to Grindr.