I'm not playing your games. I know the zeitgeist, I know what women want and they do NOT want to be approached in public at all.

Yes, there is. You see, there's that thing called "a personality" in real life. One that, believe it or not, is impossible to see from a picture. If you're funny, clever, or even simply confident (not an asshole), you have a bigger chance of them saying yes.

you can entertain women with all the jokes you want, all the charm you have, all the confidence and charisma you can muster, and she is just like an imperial king looking at a poor peasant court jester, she will be amused but throw you away, because she doesn't need you.