Are really tiny breasts a dealbraker for you?

You could work out a lot and be totally in shape, but that doesn't say anything about who you are as a person.

Actually it says a lot. I'm not the only one to say this. A fat mfker or a gym rat have two different personalities. I work out too, but I ain't nowhere close to being like some crazy of these ass beasts at the gym who look like they work out 24/7, and I never will be. That takes dedication, goal setting, ambition, discipline, etc. It also takes a lot of obsession and time in some cases.. but I don't wanna go on about this, but yes if someone works out it does say A LOT about them. Usually good things, sometimes bad, it depends on what you define as good and bad. That's why women are generally attracted to guys who work out and tbh vice versa in most cases.

If you saw a woman with big boobs who was naked, apart from "ooh naked lady", what would you think? She has big boobs. That's it. That's all you can say without being a total asshole and guessing parts of her personality. How thick headed do you have to be to guess a woman's personality by the size of her breasts?

Depends, are they oversized fake watermelons? You can actually infer a lot about a person if they are. Are they natural? In that case you can't really infer anything.

This is most certainly not true. Even if you're short and curvaceous, you can still be "classy" or whatever.

Of course. I just said that 'classiness' is subjective and the current model for that is somewhere in the range of slim and 6-ft and women who look like that have an advantage in pulling off the look. Having a slight advantage does not mean you're classy all the sudden. It just means you have a slight advantage. And like I said before, I never said I agree with everything the other guy said, I'm just saying that his opinion is not completely whack.

I really fail to understand what "reality" you're trying to force down our throats. Yeah, everyone has different body types, and typically, different body types have different associated looks. But women are by no means beholden to these looks and can do whatever the fuck they want. And their breasts have no bearing on whether or not they can achieve them.

They can achieve anything. But inborn advantages and disadvantages do exist.

And as for your men example, again, you're still missing the point. An analogous example for men would be to say "this guy has a curved penis, he must sleep around a lot". I'm not saying that your body determines your personality, but to say that "breasts can determine whether or not your are classy" is a ridiculous assertion. They're just breasts. They're lumps of flesh. It's what you do with them that matters.

I never heard that thing about curved penises. Who the fk came up with that one? lol Anyway, yeah they obviously don't determine if you are classy. I never directly agreed with the other guy. But as I said again and again, they give an advantage or a disadvantage in certain cases to certain people and we have to learn to live with it. Personality is not defined by your body (but it could be shaped by it), but the way you look and are perceived is.

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