"we are a support group for lonely men"

Oh I see the misunderstanding. When I say "do you expect.." I mean "do you really think that's gonna happen?" Not "do you think that should happen". Ofc they should be discouraging suicide but loads of them are themselves suicidal for the exact same reasons so why or how would they convince someone in their exact same position with their exact same mindset not to?

For me this post just seems like it's mocking or drawing attention towards a group of mentally ill, suicidal or depressed people and i see no intention of helping them or wanting to do anything other than make a spectacle of their pain for Internet points.

I guess my problem lies with this sub as a whole. Incels are deeply flawed people and you can see from a post like that that for many of them they have serious problems that amount to more than just needing a shower or some self confidence. This sub just seems like a group of people who act all high and mighty about not being extremely sexist and generally awful - which should be the bare minimum - whilst also constantly reaffirming and angering the incels through posts such as this that in no way provide any insight or add to the discussion in any meaningful way.

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