This doesn't answer OP, but this is for all the men who visit this thread and wonder what they are doing wrong.

The worst thing you can do is take a girl on a traditional date, ie dinner and a movie.

Dinner makes us full and bloated and gassy and tired. Liquor makes us fun and lively and adventurous. Which would you prefer?

Movies are a fucking tragedy. "Hey, lets sit in this dark room next to each other for 2 hours, and stare at this screen". Uhhhhh BORING. Are you trying at all?

This is why "nice guys" feel left out, because they pull this awkward bullshit, and it turns her panties into the Gobi desert.

First date is meet at a bar. If you're suave, you've convinced her (charmingly, of course) that the first round is on her, the next two on you. This makes her invest in you, now she's not so eager to run. Never foot the bill, split it, even a little bit. I like to split it, but I'll pick up the tip. So the bill becomes a 60/40 equivalence, which is a great balance. You might get her to your place, you might not, that's ok, whatever. Lots of girls pull the "never on the first date" card as some religious mantra, even if they really want to.

Second date is the same thing, but with a little adventure. Break into a neighbors jacuzzi, go somewhere with dancing where you can touch her all night, or just hit some more bars, but fun ones with good music and a nice vibe. Maybe you go back to your place, maybe not, but this date better end in some face sucking at a minimum.

Third date is at my place, and I invite them for a cooked meal and to watch the sunset with some red wine (I live on the beach). I'm a good cook, which is a big plus for girls, and this time I control the meal. No pasta or starch, just delicious fish or beef, and well prepared veggies. Then we watch the sunset with our wine, get close, flirt, kiss. Eventually it's back to my room, where I have a playlist on Spotify cued up and a nightstand of 100 sex toys ready to make her squirm.

This is the modern day version of dinner and a movie. Courting is over now. Tinder is changing the game.