Lady Here: my partner is a fat guy. I'm not going be euphemistic about it. But he's also a doctor with a handsome face and a big dick who treats me like a queen. He works harder in bed than any other man I've been with and is wonderfully cuddly. We're both working on leaning out a bit for our health/wedding but we aren't stressing out about it (for reference I'm a US size 8-12 depending on the cut of the garment, I have a fat ass). He has a stocky build (broad shoulders, dad calves) so he carries his weight well.

I used to be attracted to exclusively rail-thin men (I blame reading too much Harry Potter fan fiction as a tween) but as I've grown and had rewarding sexual experiences with men of a variety of body types I can appreciate the beauty of most men who clean themselves up. Yes, even short ones.

Really what matters to me is face, hygiene, and demeanor. I'll take a fluffy sweetheart over a buff self loathing narcissist (which I've dated before) any day of the week.