Why are "unicorn hunters" so despised? What's the best way to our explore this fantasy without offending people?

Tbh, I think a big part of it is that very few women are really keen on 1) getting treated as a living sex toy by a couple, who may or may not have baggage and really restrictive rules about the engagement, 2) being a secondary partner compared to the primary couple can be really shitty and 3) maybe they're not into one of you versus your partner.

She's going to probably have better luck looking for a female partner on her own, without this idea of you joining in, double teaming or otherwise. The reality is that most wlw who are actively looking for female partners really don't want a dude involved at the same time. As another poster said, being bi doesn't mean you're into threesomes or want to tolerate another person hanging around voyeuristically, especially if yall are basically strangers.

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