Ask me a women absolutely anything, no matter how embarrassing!

1.) I noticed that if I meet a guy after just having a short exchange online that a lot of times we're not compatible. So, I've made sure to try to ask some simple questions like what they like to do in their free time, what they're looking for, deal breakers, etc. to make sure we're on the same page. Most guys will reply normally. However, there's quite a few that just answer with jokes and become guarded so they're very difficult to get to know. What do you do in these situations? Do you just move on to someone else that's easier to communicate with? Or do you have tips to help him communicate better, while keeping the convo fun?

2.) When you're getting to know a new guy that you met online, what's the best way to show you're interested if he asks to pick you up at your place multiple times (first or second date, I live alone) or he invites himself to your home while on a date, and other things along those lines? I say no due to safety reasons since I had the misfortune of meeting some sketchy borderline rape-y guys. But, they aren't interested in a 3rd date after hearing the "when we get to know each other better" answer multiple times.

3.) How do you generally avoid saying 'no' a lot when you're uncomfortable with doing much of what's suggested but you are still interested in getting to know someone?

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