Attached Men of Reddit, what thoughts/feelings go thru your mind when your girlfriend can't get you off? Seriously

Why are you saying it like its a girls fault?

Theres plenty of times people cant cum

Theres this idea that if a girl doesnt, its the mans fault. And if a guy doesnt, its the girls fault.

Sometimes i cant cum and thats not on my fiance. He's been giving it his A game but my mindset isnt there. Ive still had a great time. I still loved the feeling. Just like sometimes he cant finish. I just tell him no worries. We can go again later if ya like.

Theres nothing to say its anyones fault. Unless a bloke is saying to you there's a bad smell or telling you youve put them off by calling them daddy or some shit - dont assume its your fault.

Men are allowed to be tired or achey or just not getting there without having to explain why. Any idea how fucking exhausting it is fucking someone? If not, try pegging. Its fucking tiring dude. Gives you a whole new respect for men and their rhythm game.

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