that's dope, thanks yo. yeah he always talks about how he "loves me and cares for me" the same way as he values his girlfriends, but that he logically can't see a commitment with me because of "how his head works and his mother issues and it's too hard to explain and no one understands". But he has the same pattern with every girl he dates, and he usually picks really troubled, low self esteem girls who let him lie and cheat and beg for him to stay anyways. I mean, some of the things I've witnessed in his relationships are absolutely horrifying, and they really all do follow the same pattern. He's just interesting, I guess. I genuinely feel bad for some of them, but he does have a magnetic hook in them. He has also used me as a tool to ruin his relationships or cause problems with his relationships, and is often 'protective' over me in a way that if someone he dates interferes with his and my relationship, he sometimes will end relationships over it or use it as an emotional manipulation technique. In his relationships, he treats me like holy ground. To me, it's hot and cold. Actually he dated a mutual friend and none of our friends believed her when she said he did horrible things, etc. Then other girls came forward. And people are baffled and confused about our his and my relationship, openly. He's a character for sure