3. Attractive ways of making interest clear?

Attractive ways of making interest clear?

There's 3 contextual kinds of showing your interest

  • Declaring your pre-established interest in her (subordination).

  • Conveying the realisation of upcomming interest in her (equalisation).

  • Approving her sufficient value to have you interested in her (social disregard displaying abundance/high standards).

3rd case is the idealised scenario anticipated by common PUA theory.

Her interest in you is assumed; to challenge the assumption breaks the frame, since your interaction is meant to solidify the presumed frame to a threshold at which the girl will objectively fall for you.

Since her interest in you is assumed, you investing time in a girl (apart from trivial cases that make you state your intention in beforehand) implies visual attraction that has yet to meet your mental demands.

Reverses the classic roles of men trying to impress females due to implied micro-social norms conveyed through your behaviour.

Requires indifference to girls going along with a self-esteem above the other individual's; that's what basic PUA theories aim to achieve anyways.

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