I have avoided women and sex my whole life because of weird genitals

I’m female. I googled your condition and looked at photos of penises that may look somewhat like yours. I would fuck a penis like those without hesitation if it was someone I cared about and was attracted to.

Even most of the worst cases I saw were still fine for me as long as I knew it wouldn’t hurt you or be unhealthy for either of us. I think I would grow to prefer them in time bc it was attached to the guy I loved who took care of my sexual needs. Just like lots of couples, I think I’d probably associate your specific penis with my pleasure and I honestly think that in time it would turn me on more than anyone else.

Your best bet would be to meet a girl, get to know her a little and if it feels like this could go somewhere just gently educate her that it isn’t an STD, just a skin thing, isn’t communicable, etc. If you wouldn’t want to do this in person maybe online dating is a better way for you to meet someone. You could chat for a week or two and get a feel for her. Then if you’d maybe like to meet up you could tell her via text so you don’t have to worry about her seeing any reaction you may have or trying to get awkward words out in person.

I think most people know to some degree what it feels like to have something bother them about their own bodies. I think most women will be accepting of something that’s different but still sexy in its own unique way especially if attached to a man they care about and especially, especially if he’s been honest about his concerns.

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