[B/S] Finally speaking up. AMA

I am happy for both of you. If, one of you starts dating, I am sure the other would want to give him/her the space, but ask this question to yourself and answer me, can you see the other person in the light of a sibling for all his/her life if need be?

Not sure if I can dump my story on you in a msg, but didnt want to share it in public, you can either read this and respond to this too or just answer to the previous question. :) I'm sure you figured by my ID that I am an Indian too. My parents situation is more or less like yours, but for the fact they are both alive. My sister and I had been been forced to become each others place for comfort since quite early in our lives, we became really close. I have a situation going on with my sister too, where we both are really conflicted, things had happen in the past in a little drunken haze but in quite consciousness nevertheless, I recently moved outta home and hometown. There is a lot of care and respect and for each other but and dont express the obvious elephant between us. In our past, thrice we had made out. In middle of our sleeps when we were drunk and passed out on the same bed. She regretted it and things went awkward for a while all the 3 times, after we were done, she'd just get up and leave. Again in a week or 2 we kinda spoke and reconciled and spoke dosnt mean we had a long elaborate talk, it was awkward and short, Mostly I had to end up saying sorry, cause she claimed the first two times that she was drunk (She made the first move both the times) I never regretted it though. Also we stopped partying together or ever sharing a bed, but We never distanced from each other. In the past 2 years we have gotten really close, though we were already so close that most of the people who dont know us in cinemas or malls can think we might be a couple. Anyway my move came as a surprise to us. It all happened in like a week. We both parted our ways though we skype and talk atleast once a week or so. Recently she was drunk with her friends and msged me 'I love you', I was too damn excited to reply asap. Then she msged 'I never told you this so I thought I wud tell you', I was quite surprised... she never ever said I love you. Since that day, I am seeing a little flirting from her side. Those three were very isolated incidents of us making out, otherwise we are as normal siblings as any other. We never even utter the word sex in front of each other type o siblings.

Now, we both know there is tension between us. Its really obvious and between all of this. She plans a trip and asks me to come with her atleast for the weekend, cause she wanted to go out partying with me. she asked me that after almost 2-3 years. I really would have loved to go with her, but genuinely cause of my work scene, I couldnt. So I told her. She plans her trip in a way that she gets to come and stay with me for sat and sunday in my city and then go for her trip. Asks me to find a nice party for saturday that she wants to go with me. I am confused and kinda thinking if this is all really happening. What do you make out of the situation?

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