My main point, is that your argument is completely about finding someone else to blame for your current troubles. Now, I can't assume anything about you, or you'll call me out on that. All I know, is that people are getting caught up in bullshit, instead of trying to enjoy their lifes. And people would rather complain online, than attempt to solve their personal problems. "They" (whoever "they" are) want us to hate each other. We aren't understanding each other as human beings who lived are lives, each of us doing what we thought was best at the time. Passing blame doesn't solve any problems, it only halts progress, because instead of fixing anything, we're just stuck herè arguing about shit that can't be undone.