I was torn myself. I’m a chill person. Not a big party girl. I think the group of people you pick is important. I didn’t pick a good group of people and they thought, because it was my bachelorette, that I had to go out and party, even though I didn’t want to. I ended up going to dinner and drinks and then coming back to the Airbnb while they all stayed out. More things happened. It was the worst weekend of my life. The next day I ended up kicking a bridesmaid and a few “friends” out of the wedding. The week before.
Why I’m sayin is, I was on the fence about it to. If you’re a chill person, say “let’s stay in and watch movies, play games, and drink sans males” and there’s NOTHING wrong with that. Just because it’s a bachelorette doesn’t mean you have to go crazy. Make sure you’re doing what you want to do.