I don't mean to talk in circles or anything, I'm just confused, but if he is fulfilled and has no complaints about our sex life, even when I ask him if there's anything I could do different, why is it bad that I naturally have a low sex drive? I give him everything he says he wants as best as I possibly can.

He sort of says the same thing as you, though, that I should actually feel a certain way instead of just maintaining the appearance of that feeling, but the feeling just doesn't exist in my brain capacity. I can't force myself to feel a feeling that doesn't exist for me. All I can do is make sure I'm meeting as many of his needs as possible.