Is it bad that I am still a virgin at the age of 19?

Nah it's not bad at all. My first time was right before I turned 21. Outside of the narrow scope of things my ex enjoyed I'm relatively inexperienced. I make up for it by being enthusiastic and confident.

Since the world ended I've exclusively talked to people online (tinder, bumble, etc) and gals I've talked dirty with have all for the most part been excited by my lack of experience. I've had some want to drive out to me that same day to "make up" the time I spent with my ex not enjoying sex. I declined cause 'rona.

There's ways to be subtle about it too. If you're talking dirty and it's something you don't have experience with, don't just say you're a virgin and shut down. If they want to suck your dick, say something like "oh no one's ever done that to/for me". If they want you to go down on them, say "that sounds so hot I've never gotten to try that".

A line or two like that, while still being enthusiastic and confident, will make the "this is my first time" conversation easier

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