Is it bad to set a boundary that I do not want female friend to stay overnight at his house?

Finally a sensible comment. The responses to the original post are just bizarre. It seems everyone is ignoring the part where the boyfriend’s female friend has a sexual past with him. This woman is not his friend, she’s his ex.

Also the part where she regularly stays over is odd. I looked at OP’s post history and OP is 40 and her bf is 38, meaning this friend is probably in her late 30s too. What business does someone at that age have staying over at someone else’s house frequently? It’s very odd and definitely not normal to consistently stay over at someone’s house (assuming the “friend” has her own home and bed to sleep in)

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