I know a lot of people have responded saying "terrible texters don't exist." But she herself brought it up during the date and gave examples of how even how her closest friends would text her something important and sometimes she would forget to respond until the next day. I didn't really get that sense when we were messaging on the apps because responding like once a day on the app really isn't something uncommon.

But that is a good point about the context of her followup message. I really wish she had just told me "Sorry I wasnt feeling it" instead of just saying "Oh sry I missed your message." Maybe I am a backup like you say or maybe she seriously just didn't care. Either way it's too much of a hassle to get invested in like many people say and it's probably best to just move on.