Just by the way you wrote about how you liked how the short guys were not full of themselves, kind of made it sound like it was more of a comfort/safe guy(s) to date, then ultimate attraction. I know some short guys can be attractive to some women, but generally, they are not short and balding, it is that they are attractive men but at a short height, typically well above avg face. I don’t know how short you are talking either, most men 5’7” and below are going to have a lot of problems in dating.
So with your husband If he got more attractive to you, why are you milling around a balding forum? Just to give other guys encouragement? That makes no sense.
What I meant by that statement is you were alluding that I must not be a kind person if women don’t find me attractive. It is not the case, it is physical.