This gets posted constantly and it’s always irritating.

I don’t go and tell a homeless person that becoming financially stable is easy, just go to school and apply to jobs. I don’t tell women it’s easy to deadlift 150 lbs, just go to the gym at least once a week and keep at it. I don’t tell immigrants it’s easy to speak English without an accent, just watch YouTube videos.

There is much more to the story for each of these scenarios, and the same can be said for the argument presented in the OP. Until you have walked in our (avg men)’s shoes, you don’t have the right to say anything like this. It’s become a meme at this point (just shower and drink water) and you’ll easily get a gf. False. Very false.

As other commenters have said, the bar is at or nominally low for guys that women already find attractive. And I have tried everything. I have gone to the gym. I have gotten a stellar education and career. I have gotten a near hair style. I have gotten good outfits. I have put myself out there. Nothing. And the reason, well I can’t state on this sub or else I’ll get banned, but deep down I know why.

I was never even considered to start with. But I learned to live with. I moved on. I’m doing much better now, and am very happy with my life as it currently stands, even though I have yet to go on a date.

But posts like this still annoy the hell out of me, because of how disrespectful and inconsiderate they are