Nope he has not talked to me in about 2 hours now, hasn’t come to bed or come to apologize. I have no idea wtf he meant. I’m successful in my job where I coach teachers on research-backed ways to reduce chronic absenteeism by building better relationships with parents and just started a new hobby that is going well and I’m advancing in so If I was a shit person I think I would have found out long before now... tonight I’m giving space for him to maybe think about his bullshit and hopefully have a real adult conversation about what going on with him. We’ll see what tomorrow brings. I also just started a second job today so maybe he is feeling shitty that I have to pick up his slack. Who knows but the more I read these comments the better I feel about it but I’m starting the feel like there is something going on with him that he’s not saying!