So I have been dm-ing some girls on Instagram lately, so my question is. What are some good interesting questions to ask a girl and get to know her better?

I use to do this when it was considered more normal (at least where I'm from)

My General rule was:

  1. Small talk on DM (how are you, how do you know mutual follower, what you studying in school etc)

  2. Get their snapchat, once on Snapchat you can get more flirty, one thing I used to do was increase the amount of x's used after the end of a message (start off with one, eg "hey x"), increase by 1 every few days (eg "hey xx"), go back if she doesn't do it back. Move to heart emojis once the number of x's gets too big. This is also a good time to start commenting on her insta (idk if that's normal still).

  3. Once you're getting to really know each other, get her FaceTime and number. Talk on facetime for at least a week.

  4. Meet irl and go on 'date's and shit.

Success rate was really high but l was 13/14 and it was considered normal where I'm from back then but it's not anymore tbh.

One more tip, this might sound like a dick move but ignore the girl for a day or 2 once deep into the snapchat stage, l accidently realized it makes them like you a lot more lol.

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