Been open / actively searching for dates/relationships for the past year and I haven’t found any yet.

"tinder matches on Snapchat that didn’t lead anywhere"

Rule #1 on Snapchat: If a guy asks to go there, ALWAYS assume he just wants your nudes and not actually meet.

In quarantine, I added tons of people on Snap and had an embarrassing number of nights on there. But I have met NONE in person, despite all my attempts. In the end, if a guy actually wants to meet, he'll just shut up and do it.

You need to be more assertive about actually meeting. Just say upfront "meet or not interested." Don't take any excuses otherwise, people will love-bomb you or make excuses or always pretend they're busy. You need to be "okay then let's schedule when you aren't busy, we meeting or not?"

For what it's worth, I think you're VERY hot. It definitely isn't your looks or anything, you can totally get any guy. Wanna Snap? Lol.

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