If your goal is to improve peoples' lives fren, then accepting that gender and sex are different is the way to go about it. To do otherwise would be extremely unfrenly.

fren, I think you and I agree it is good to be frenly, and we even agree that it’s frenly to improve people’s lives. Where I think we disagree is that I’m not so interested in expensing mental energy on improving the lives of a tiny minority of mentally deranged people; I want to see the most improvement for the most people. It’s utilitarian frenliness, and imo it was common sense until, basically, the cultural revolution of the 1960s. Since then, the large majority always have to change, to adjust, to bend over backwards for the tiny minority. Everyone is forced to be exposed to stuff that makes them uncomfortable just so a handful of mentally deranged people can be comfortable. That’s the new ethos of what it is to be frenly and I just fundamentally disagree with it.