Is this the beginning of the end for my gf and I?

Tell her exactly how you feel. Sit her down and tell her you need to talk and that you are being foreal that it’s effecting you negatively.

She is literally incapable of speaking on the matter. This is what seems to cause a lot of problems is the fact that she is unable or unwilling to speak to me about whatever is bothering her, which of course leads me to think its me, but when I ask if it's me she always says no.

Sounds like she isn’t interested and your annoying her, that’s my opinion tho.

I don't disagree with you. I feel the same way, that she isn't interested in hearing what I have to say and that I am annoying her. But when she isn't like this she's really nice and loving to me, it's just that this happens so often now that I feel like it must be me. What else could it be that she doesn't want to talk about it, you know?

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