Being attractive with social anxiety

I think that there are different levels of social anxiety. Some people just do not want attention at all and aren’t looking to talk to other people and they would rather be lonely because that’s how bad the anxiety is. I think that’s what this post is getting at. That’s how I took it at least. I HATE the attention and I avoid it at all costs, then I look like a snob. When I get hit on or I get a message, I avoid it because of anxiety, then I look like a snob and I’m scared that I make people feel like shit. Be careful what you wish for is a quote that comes to mind when reading both of our situations. I think we both feel as though we have it better/worse in different ways.

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