It's your fetish, you don't need anyone to tell you how to do it lol.

I guess you're worried about upsetting potential partners? Just make sure the subs you find are into what you're into.

What makes a good dom, that depends on whoever you ask. I think some people are into master/slave type shit, like this one this guy asked me to be his slave and I thought it would be cool and sexy, but there was NO sex in it at all, he literally just wanted me to stand there and follow him around and roleplay like we were in the middle ages, it was boring as hell, and I'm also not into violence like some people are. I'm mostly a horn dog, I like lots of sex and someone that can give me lots of sex.

My boyfriend is the best kind of dom because he's the kind of dom that cares deeply about his sub, but he's naturally dominant and a pleaser, that means he enjoys being in control of my pleasure, he will literally spend hours massaging me or scratching my back because it gets him off, he likes to make me happy. He treats me like a princess, and doesn't like when I'm independent, he likes to think that I need him for everything. He likes lots of touching and foreplay and bondage and nipple play and stuff like that, he really needs someone like me who is responsive to that kind of stuff.
In bed, he likes to make me cum through rough sex so he's pretty much always the one in control. We're both obsessed with rape. I can tell he's a natural rapist, it's really hot. It works out really well between us because I'm naturally sub and I love receiving, I could just lay there for hours and have him do all the work, and for some reason that's one of his biggest turns ons, is to just have me lay there and let him do anything he wants with me.