I am clearly not the most perfect person..so i agree for the most parts.. i did not plan on hooking up on the first date,i have never ever done that..it just felt right at the time.. which in hindsight i do agree was a terrible idea.. also i do want to just say that i initially thought of him as a casual dating kinda thing but having talked so much i might have thought that it might go somewhere, him reciprocating everything and even more.. i am not even exaggerating when i say that he sounded more into this than i did.. it's not like my life will end at this one person ghosting me, but you can't deny that i have the right to feel bad when it comes out of the blue..