Ok, let's get some facts straight.
Several of OP's friends have "raided" my instagram and spammed it, calling me a tranny/faggot, insulting my body, etc. These words started with her. When I started dating my bf (her ex), her "bff" was in process of trying to have sex with him. I got in the way of that, and it really pissed her off, so they both started harassing us. They threw all of these insults first, calling me an ugly tranny, fake, etc. We had to block both their numbers, their facebooks, etc. We still don't know why his ex got involved when her bff wanted to fuck him, but she did. It didn't stop until we forced it to, and she even contacted him again with a new ohone number.
I never threatened her. Not legitimately, anyway. Nothing I said was out of the ordinary, considering how much they harassed us. WE were going to get an RO on her friend, because the texts wouldn't stop. Now they constantly talk about getting one on me. This started with them, so it's not unprovoked. I didn't just start hating her randomly one day.
My instagram was never "dedicated" to her. I made it when I started modeling and it's been my personal blog since. I don't post about her on Facebook, I spoke of her last on there when she said she was going to see my bf "in court" for reasons stated in OP. That was at least 6 weeks ago. I haven't said most of the shit she claims I'm saying.
For all the "proof of harassment" she has, I can bring the huge messages she sent to us, all the horrible texts she sent my bf, etc when they started this last year. I kept most of it. The only way I provoked it was by not letting her bff step all over me when I fell for this guy, and when they attacked me by sending rants to my bf, I fired back by telling everyone what they did, and they said it's all lies. That girl went out of her way, lying to tons of people about me to try to get what she wanted. Both OP and her friend engage in ridiculous teenage dramatics, and then twist it around. The dumb people they hang out with eat it all up and validate their crazy bullshit.
That all said, I did post about her on r/fatpeoplehate, with her face censored. It was after she said she's take my bf to court and try to press charges on him for no reason. I've also vented about her in r/relationships. But it was all anonymous, and never revealed her identity or personal info. But I've said the worst things after she's gone out of her way to try to twist things. I wouldn't have given a shit if her and her creepy friends didn't come after me because one of them desperately wanted to have sex with my bf. She denies it all and says he's ugly and shit but I was there, and she tried to put the moves on him. Hard. And it didn't work. He liked me. And ever since then she tells me I'm suicidal and fake and all this shit.
In all of my venting, I always made an effort to maintain privacy even though she totally doesn't deserve it.
There is no legal grounds here, and she knows it. This is not the first time she's tried to shut me up by saying she'd call the cops. She just wants people to agree with her and call me a bitch without knowing the whole situation. Saying "my bf's ex cheated" etc. is not illegal.
I have never tried to "work around" being blocked, I've never contacted her directly and she's never contacted me directly (she always whines to my bf, he's blocked her a total of 4 times and had to change his phone number today). She just tells a bunch of people about my anonymous posts and then a bunch of her friends have a go at me. She has supposedly blocked me, but still reads my shit. The post on Reddit she's complaining about is old and I deleted it long before she posted this, so we actually aren't sure how she found it, unless it was a while ago and she just waited this long to whine about it.
I haven't posted anything on her in a while, so we think she might be flipping out over something else. I was in a big modeling show recently and my bf (who dated her for 5 years, so he does know her and her issues pretty well) thinks that's what set her off.
Petty threats won't stop me from venting when I need to. What her and her friend did to us was horrible. The way they continue to defame us. She claims I am doing that to her, but I'm the one getting all the hate mail from all her friends. I can guarantee that isn't happening to her, at least not from anyone I know, because I don't whine to people and have them "defend" me. She has never once stood up for herself, because she knows shels wrong. So let's be clear about who's harassing who. Her friend posted a lot of nasty shit on my page today that could be seen as hate-speech (she too, uses lgbt hate-speech against me), but I simply deleted it all and blocked the accounts. That's what adults do.
I don't have accounts dedicated to her. I don't do shit to the extent she is claiming. And this all started with her and her friend when I started dating her ex. We don't get why she's involved, she cheated and left him, so we don't get her obsession. She didn't seem to want him so why does she care who he's with. We definitely don't care who she's with.
I've said I follow her for the lulz. I've said some decentky nasty shit about her. She's earned it. Posts about her, however, are not as frequent as she makes it sound. She wants to completely silence me because she's ashamed but nope sorry that's not how the internet or real life works.
I know this game. I tell the truth, she accuses me of lying. It's supposed to make me mad, but it doesn't. I just find it all hilarious and sad.