Is being sexually inexperienced hurt your chances?

Show me data that demonstrates more partners equals, directly, a higher chance of being unfaithful. It does not. That is your insecurity showing.

It’s damaging because it tells women they can get sex on demand, and they cannot. So guess what happens when that reality plays out and you can’t? You think something is wrong or defective with you as a woman. But there isn’t.

I am by any western standard a sexy woman. Big blue eyes, full lips, 32DD, small waist, big hips, pretty rockin backside, toned legs, manicured from top to bottom. I’m 5’5 and a size 2/4. Not fat, not scrawny, I workout quite a bit and take great care of myself and shocker I cannot get any man I meet to sleep with me on command. I have been turned down because EVERYONE HAS PREFERENCES. Some men find me too thin, some too fit, some too short, some too tall, some too white. Some even think I’m too fat, somehow. You literally cannot make everyone happy. I am educated, artistic, funny, independent, good career ... still single bc my husband wouldn’t sleep with me and I refuse to be celibate. I’ve had 5 year+ relationships fail bc I CANNOT GET SEX on the frequency I want it. It is 100% nonsense to say men want and will give sex at our beck and call no matter HOW great we are as a person, or physically, or in bed.

We don’t have crazy high standards, if anything, go read the dating posts from women and see how incredibly LOW their standards are. More often than not girls are being implored by their fellow women to stop selling themselves so damn short and putting up with bullshit.

If you want sex at all costs go pay a sex worker. You literally can have sex whenever you want and are choosing not to. Or lower YOUR standards.

You don’t get sex because women can instinctively sense the desperation and misogyny.

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