Was single for 11 years only, had casual dates, fck buds but never fell in love with those. There were some guys that I really liked but every time they would confess that they liked me or wanted to date me, I would back off because I felt like something was missing. it felt like just rushing to the goal of being with someone without letting the relationship build up naturally like a man made relationship. Then suddenly me and my best friend started doing things romantically without even realizing it, never actually knew when it all started but the connection was there all along. Now I'm married to him and I wanna choke him to death and just go back to being single. Guess there were really just people who are not wired to be with someone.