Do you believe that hook-up culture is ruining chances at long lasting relationships?

I don’t know why someone’s sexual history matters. When getting to know someone new, it’s the last thing you should ask about. How many times someone’s banged one out doesn’t define them as a person. If they bring it up in a braggy manner, sure, that can be off putting as no one like a bragger.

It most definitely doesn’t ruin chances of long term relationships. I had many different ‘adventures’ in my late teens and early 20s, still had several long term relationships (ones that last way more than a year). You simply don’t bring it up. If you’re with or interested in someone, there is no logic in fixating on their body count - your time is better spent getting to know them and seeing if they’re a match.

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