This was my wedding. My sister in law offered herself to officiate the wedding and my first thought was that it was a really sweet thing to do for her brother. She also offered herself to help planning the wedding cause it was at the town they live and i had never been there. Even though i told her and sent her pictures of exactly what i wanted for my wedding and the money to get it, i found out that she got a cupcake cake, toast glasses with the state name on them, a tiny wood letter for people to sign, a room in a farm that wasnt decorated or cleaned, she tried to get a photographer the day before, and that wasn't even the worst part. She went to Walmart the last night prior to the wedding to get something to wear for the ceremony, and for my surprise she cant speak in public so nobody understood a word she said and i spent the whole ceremony worried and thinking she was gonna faint since she was trembling so bad. I didn't know any of that cause all the time i checked things with her she said everything was fine and ready just the way i wanted it. Of course we also paid her for her help at the end.