I have a bf and he knows I'm interested in girls but.....

You have to talk to him if you feel bored with sex. If he's not paying attention to your pleasure you have to bring that up with him. It should be 1:1 orgasms. Or hopefully more for you if he can string together a streak. It has to be a priority of his to make you cum, or else he doesn't get to cum. Don't let him use you, and if your bored please try anal. Maybe by a toy and start using it on yourself. I've found that jojoba oil is the best lube. And don't worry too much about any bacteria or whatnot, just rinse with soap and water whenever you see debris, and if you want to really prepare use a bulb douche. Definitely can add another dynamic to your sexlife.

As for having more experiences with girls, you again have to communicate with him. You guys are just two human beings living your lives. Like you only have this one go around, why limit yourselves. You both should be able to explore your sexualities and you definitely cannot let him hold you back. So talk to him, get him on your side. If it's more sexual maybe tell him you'll take pictures together with her, or send cute videos. If he's who you want to be with long term, you just have to let him know that you're full commitment is to him, and that what you want is to feel a slightly more fulfilled life because you got to dictate your experience.

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