Bi girl & new to tinder… I set my preference to women and got 70 likes. I then set it to men and got 1100+ likes?? Why is the difference so huge?

Honest question some friends and I have discussed (which includes more women than men btw): where tf are all they women? Like not just in dating apps that seems dominated by dick but IRL too. Go into any hobby or community and it’s majority dudes.

Like outdoors stuff? Majority dudes. Learning music? Majority dudes. Local DSA meeting? Majority dudes. Writers meetup? Majority dudes. Comedy improv class? Majority dudes. Acting class? Majority dudes. Oil painting seminar? Majority dudes.

For real, it’s pretty wild. I’m a film maker and that seems pretty neutral but it’s still majority dudes. Even acting is tbh though it’s the closest I’ve seen to even.

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