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It's a red flag for sure, you have addressed the issue and his reaction isn't satisfactory to you. Are you ok with this? I guess the question you have to ask yourself is, can you still marry and remain respectful to someone who's invested in some random non-mahrams lives on social media? If this later becomes an issue after your nikkah, are you willing to tackle it together and remain sabr, can you see yourself working through this without losing compassion and feeling frustrated?

This whole social media thing is supposed to be vetted early on in the talking stage because from there you could find out about a person's level of haya and their lifestyle and then decide if you want to introduce them to your family and take it further. It's good that he made the effort to remove some of them, but his hesitance to remove people that he's never talked to def needs to be addressed and resolved before you have your nikkah.

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