Big Brother US18 - West Coast Episode Discussion - July 10 2016 [Noms]

Her reaction is fine, but if she does not react (keeps quiet and allows him to keep doing it) in favor of winning the money, that is on her. It is on her to stop his behavior because he thinks it is ok, because people do wild shit in the BB house, and she had not shown any bad reaction to it from the beginning.

But her reaction to Frank's behaviour is not unusual and it doesn't mean she's compromising her morals!

If someone lets another person rape them for a billion dollars, and they said nothing, then i'd say they compromised their morals. If she had let him touch her all summer long and not said anything, i'd say she would have compromised her morals. Day said something, Thursday night, and thus she stuck to her morals despite the game.

When you said "In order to survive Day is biting her tongue", meaning she is accepting the behavior towards her and saying nothing, I reckoned it more accurate to say "in order to win $500,000 Day is biting her tongue". Before the point where she said something, Day was the one allowing it to happen, because she didn't want to damage her chances at the money.

Think of it like this, Day, Frank, and a cop are at a private residence. Frank slaps Day on the butt. The only way the cop can do anything is if Day says she doesn't want Frank slapping her butt. If the cop sees him slap her butt and she says nothing, then in his eyes no harm is done. It is up to her to say something. No one is forcing her to be there, she is there on her own free will, she can tell him to stop, and he will be forced to stop, or she can just leave. It was her choice to let it keep happening.

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