My GF essentially catfished me on our first date as she used older pictures of her skinnier self on her profile. After the first date I didn't ask her out again but we stayed in contact.

Flash forward to almost one year later. I'm cooking in a BBQ competition and she comes out. To my surprise, she's lost at lot of weight, like 60+ pounds. We start dating, she stops working out and gains all of the weight back over a year.

I've been dancing around this issue with her for a while now but she's not making a real attempt at fixing said issue. She works out for 30 minutes 5 times a week but makes no attempt on improving her eating habits.

I like her, but I take good care of myself and I expect my SO to do the same. I have no clue on how to bring this issue to light where there is no confusion.